Panduan Bakal Ibu: Catatan Santai Kelahiran Pertama 'HypnoBirthing'

Dicatat secara santai oleh anak kedua saya Fakhron Elliyana (adik) yang melahirkan cara 'HypnoBirthing' di rumah hanya dibantu suami

Petang tu kebetulan semua tiket flight habis dan kami hanya sampai di KL dengan last flight dan terus ke hospital - Tropicana Medical Centre
......ketika kami sampai, alhamdulillah semua anak dan ibu telah selamat dan semuanya ok

Kronologi Kelahiran Ungku Zul Farrel b. Ungku Mohd Zulkifli, 23 Jun 2014 - Elly & Zul 014

20jun : bgn that morning tgk ada bloody show .. dlm hati "owh, gud sign !" .. but agak frustrated sbb x rasa skt lg (keep on asking the bby for the past few months to come out today as 20th june is my bday) .. what else to do ? Just jln kan rutin harian mcm biasa ..

21june : 11pm-start rasa sakit but still bearable .. keep on bouncing on a gym ball, squatting, dancing, naik turun tangga laju2 dah gaya gajah turun bukit haaaa .. siap wat gelek gerudi inul lg hoccay but pls jgn imagine sbb mak sndri pun xsanggup nk wat dpn cermin--kompom burok bebeno ghopenye !

22june : daytime-start rasa like a strong menstrual cramps tp still boleh huha-huha ngn hubby ..
Night time-dah rasa confused cane sbenarnya rasa skt nak bsalin sbb sgt different dgn rasa braxton hicks (only the tightening sensation which I love to enjoy it). 

23june : 3am-dah xmampu nak tdo .. turun bwh layan surges kat hall sampai pg--seriously duk menghitung masa bile la hubby nak bgn n turun bwh .. 10am- start texting my elder sister utk meluahkan perasaan (utk distract rasa sakit sbenarnya) 10.30am- ahhhh finally !

Dia turun bwh n tanya dgn muka slenge nye "eh, nape syg duk bwh ? Xtdo atas ke smlm ?" And I was like "daaaaaa ~~" .. but still la told him skt da agak intense so he decided to take an EL on that day--thanks dear (even xsure pun nak bsalin ke x aritu). 1pm : gile kentang nye serangan contraction bertubi2 but still keep on texting my sis utk distract that 'sensation'--seriously still xtau tu skt nak bersalin tp dah start happy coz I knew that my baby is on his way to meet his parents.  

3.23pm-my sis suggested to fill the kiddy pool with water n layan the surges dlm tu .. so that's what I asked my hubby to do .. tgh duk tunggu air pool pnuh, dtg strong surge yg mmg tahap peluk hubby xlepas n don't ask me about the breathing technique--mmg kelaut, ke bulan, ke bintang dah ! Tp hubby keep on reminding me to breathe breathe, let it go n smile .

Time ni mmg dah xtgk jam. After 2strong surges strike me while im still on the couch, my waterbag leaked. Hubby pimpin masuk dlm pool .. elok jejak kaki dlm pool, tros rasa the urge to PUSH n I was like "omg ! No ! Not here ! Not now !". 

Tanya hubby sempat tak if nak gerak gi hospital sekarang, dia ckp sempat .. ok .. jom ! .. hubby lari naik atas nak grab my baju utk gi hospital .. tgh dia kat atas, I jerit melalak mcm org kena dera ngn laki, panggil dia coz rasa nak push lg n by the time dia sampai ngn baju, rambut bby dah nampak ! 

Oh dear .. oh dear .. nak xnak, tawakkal .. TERpaksa deliver kat rumah ! Hubby keep on talking to me--remind me to apply the breathing technique, cheering me "u can do it syg, breathe in ... let it go ... smile syg, smile .. lg sket je kita bole jumpa farrel .. syg nak kan tgk farrel ?" .. after a few pushes (baby's head keep on keluar masuk a few times), dlm kpale otak da fikir mcm2--I'm aware that baby's umbilical cord tbelit 2lilit, dia xbole nak keluar ke ?

What if pasni tumpah darah n I die, hubby sorg2 with newborn bby, dia bole handle ke ? Then tetibe mcm--ahhhh cut the crap ! Im strong coz im a mother .. dont worry my dear, mommy promised to help u and I will fight for u .. dgn sgala kekuatan yg berbaki+panic attack, 1 last push !!! 

Then splashhhhh .. the baby is out !!! Sibbek mak jemah sempat catch, ayahnye xsempat sambut sbb bby kluar mcm bullet train laju bebeno .. Lepaskan cord yg tbelit kat leher bby, n pass the bby to hubby coz mommy da gmok bebeno time deliver tu so x larat duk squatting lama2, LENGUH ! nak duduk atas bontot tros xbole coz tkot placenta segan nak kluar .. after about 10mins, blupppp kuar jgak si placenta ni .. penat mnunggu .. n hubby keep on asking me "syg ok x ? Ada rasa nak pitam ? Pening x ? Jom siap cpt kita gi hospital skg" ..

Ketika baru dilahirkan

serious xtaw knapa dia insist nak rush ke hospital .. grab placenta letak lam plastic bag, balut bby ngn towel, sarung je baju basahan ngn bra pun ntah kmana, tros gerak gi hospital .. OTW to the hospital- arghhh good timing bby, time peak hour org blk kerja ! Ok .. xpe .. keep calm n drive ! Sampai hospital, diorang ambil bby utk checkup--semua perfect .. n me ? 2nd degree tear n bleeding a lot--admitted 1mlm 

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